January 24, 2012
“When your pain is great, it is best to seek shelter in the open arms of your family. ” Anonymous
My Dear Friends:
This week our 623 Family is in pain. Not a sore tooth pain, but that all over ache that follows a tremendous shock. The 623 Family experienced the worst type of loss possible…..losing three members of our 623 Family.
Lance Lieder, a 2008 graduate of 623, Sam Hughes, a junior at Roseville Area High School, and Shelly Frey, a beloved and dedicated employee of District 623, all passed away unexpectedly and without warning. The death of those three individuals is causing the entire 623 Family to gasp for breath because of the shock of these devastating losses.
Some feel that an individual must have a long life to make a mark in the world. Don’t tell that to the members of the 623 Family who knew and loved Shelly, Sam and Lance. Their deaths are being felt in every part of the community, but especially in three homes that know the pain of losing a mother, wife, son, and brother.
Dealing with the loss of a family member is one of the most difficult situations we face as a learning community. There are no easy and correct answers. The hurt in our hearts is too immense. This is a time we must all pull together to support their families and each other. Little things mean a great deal. I learned that from my friend and colleague, Shelly Frey. She would always send a note, call with a message of support, tell others she cared and ask if there was anything she could do to comfort them. Shelly’s support made a difference and was always appreciated. Follow her lead and do the same for the families of Lance, Sam and Shelly.
Along with the rest of the 623 Family, I am in shock over the loss of our three family members. My heart is breaking for the loved ones of Sam, Lance and my co-worker, Shelly. I assure you that Roseville Area Schools will do everything possible to shelter our students, staff and their families in the open arms of the 623 Family.
I also ask that you keep all three families in your thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Dr. John Thein
Superintendent